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Rather than talking to him about our feelings like the two adults we technically too, I dropped the subject and let my resentment toward him grow. When we hit a rough patch in our relationship, I didn't know how to deal with it without seeming clingy or needy, so I wound up playing games. I texted him way less often than I used to, and I played hard to get when he did invite me out. I thought I was going to get my point across, but he eventually stopped answering my texts at all. When I finally confronted him about ghosting me, he accused me of ghosting him.

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Rather than talking to him about our feelings like the two adults we technically were, I dropped the subject and let my resentment toward him grow. When we hit a rough patch in our relationship, I didn't know how to deal with it without seeming clingy or needy, so I wound up playing games. I texted him way less often than I used to, and I played hard to get when he did invite me out. I thought I was going to get my point across, but he eventually stopped answering my texts at all.

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When I finally confronted him about ghosting me, he accused me of ghosting him. That was not my goal at all!

I thought being chill would get him to finally like me back, but it just pushed him away for good, and wound up hurting him in the process. In hindsight, the entire stupid situation could've been avoided if we had wxnt communicated honestly and been a little vulnerable with each other. You never have inner peace — either commit and be exclusive, or be open and keep it casual.

Situationships are messy.

Sometimes, you can turn a situationship around Shutterstock This is how I ended up with my boyfriend! We met in London ho I was studying abroad and at the time, I was still 'talking to' someone back in the USA who I had been hooking up with.

I had just gone through a horrible breakup, so when I met my now-boyfriend, we agreed it was just 'chill. Then, we continued to talk casually all summer and, hcat we got back to school, started hooking up with other people and also each other. But it became so stressful.

We were constantly mad when the other spent time with cill else or slept with someone else, and our beautiful, casual relationship became a messy, jealous problem. We had to have a lot of sit-down talks and it took a while to get to the point of hardcore dating.

Hut now we are and have been for two years and just moved in together. Was in one last year: We were together constantly, and were texting and snapping whenever we weren't, kissed and held hands in front of each others' friends, and basically did all of the 'relationship-y' things. Only issue was he wasn't willing to commit, but grew extremely jealous and questioning whenever I would talk to other guys.

And while we're still on good terms and I have no hard feelings, I would never get myself into a situation like that ever again, especially since I do want a serious and committed relationship. In my opinion, if such a situation were to occur: stay friends with benefits before emotional attachment occurs, get into a real relationship if you know feelings are mutual, and cut ties otherwise.